Do you still feel the same attraction to your partner as at the start of your relationship? Are playfulness, sensuality and joy still part of your daily deeper connection? Are you stunned, moved, stirred, thrilled, and excited when you interact with each other, touch each other, and speak to each other?
After being together for years, busy with job and/or children, partners get more depolarized to each other as a consequence of living from the mind, and settle quietly in as mates, who automatically run the household and organization of their daily life. Sometimes it feels like drifting apart from each other, not remembering what brought you together in the first place. Most of the people I know rest with that situation as a belief that this is an inevitable consequence of years of partnership.
Apart from that pattern, which requires willingness and focus to understand polarization and getting back centered into their masculine and feminine, partners mirror each other strongly in their unsolved issues with their own parents and play them unconsciously over and over again. Often with the consequence that it seems inevitable to leave each other.
In a couple session we will redefine the basis of the relationship and the original purpose of the two of you being together. We will explore what's needed to revitalize the connection. We will work with (tantric) exercises through communication and touch.
